Four easy positive psychology exercises can help you improve your relationship and be happier. Each of these exercises, resulting from psychology studies, offer the benefits of greater happiness, contentment, and life satisfaction.
Autonomy—Express your individuality
The more autonomy and freedom of choice in your life, the happier you are. Look for opportunities in your daily life, at work and home, to express your free choice and independence.
- Organize your space.
- Devote some time to activities you enjoy
Bad Feelings Fade
Positive psychology researcher Dan Gilbert finds that people systematically over-estimate the duration of their feelings about both positive and negative future events. People adapt to new situations very quickly. Therefore, the negative event you fear, if it occurs, won't trouble you for as long as you now think it will. Conversely, the glow from a positive event won't last forever either.
- The future isn't as bright as you hope nor as dim as you fear.
- Adjust your expectations accordingly.
Fun and Philanthropy
Psychology studies show that an orientation to the welfare of others is, in the long run, more satisfying than an orientation to one's own pleasure. To experience this for yourself:
- In the next week, undertake one pleasurable activity for yourself and one philanthropic activity that will benefit another person.
- Spend about the same amount of time on each activity during the week and at the end of the week jot down your reactions and feelings as a result of each activity.
Gratitude Letter
Gratitude is a wonderful feeling of thanks that, when expressed, brings positive emotions to both initiator and recipient. To experience this for yourself, pick someone who has been kind and helpful to you, but has not heard your personal expression of thanks.
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