What Color Are Your Eyes? Some months before my wife and I were engaged we were out to dinner and found ourselves staring into one another's eyes. I remember how relaxed I felt and how comfortably we stayed in that moment of wordless intimacy. Today if I catch my wife looking at me like that I’ll say – “What are you looking at?” She always smiles and says the same thing, “I’m looking at you!” We both smile catching a feeling without explanation. I